A gay man wants to be a man because being like a woman is still somehow thought of as less than. We’re taught our whole lives that boys who don’t want to play football and blow things up are “sissies.” Those are the boys to shun on the playground because either they’re gay and want to do something dirty to you, or they want to be girls. And what kind of person would want to act like a girl when they were born with the privilege of a penis between their legs? All those gay men out there who don’t want any “fems” are still reliving those days on the playground, shunning anything that has any trappings of being like a woman.
…Those on the masculine side of the spectrum need to can it with the “no fems” bullshit. When it comes down to it, no matter how many sports they play, how much beer they drink, or how much Madonna they hate, they still suck dick just like the rest of us, and there are certain parts of the mainstream that will despise you for that, no matter how well you hide.